Your child is worth knowing. Really knowing. Talk. Exchange. Observe. Carefully collect any piece of information that paints a portrait of this heritage of the Lord Jesus.
Communicate with the intent to learn, not condemn. Give your child what they cannot find anywhere else, a non-judgemental conversation. They will keep coming back.
“Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward. 4 As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth. 5 Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate.”