Your children are gifts from the Lord Jesus. Take time to unlock their greatness. Help create order in their lives. Make a list of their daily chores. They deserve to know your specific expectations of them.
Penalize them for disobedience. Reward them for obedience. Do it consistently. They are worth the time and effort.
“Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying.”
(Proverbs 19:18)