Someone has said that even a fish wouldn’t get caught if it kept its mouth shut! Confidentiality is a gift to be shared in the privacy of prayer or with an intercessor God has assigned to your life.
Never share your troubles with someone unqualified to help you.
“Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself; and discover not a secret to another: 10 Lest he that heareth it put thee to shame, and thine infamy turn not away.”
(Proverbs 25:9-10)