Many have faced adversity greater than your own. Yes, they overcame. Their secret was that they chose to conquer. Stop looking for excuses to fail. Start looking for reasons to succeed. Overcoming is a choice.
The apostle Paul received 195 lashes with a whip. He was beaten three times with rods. He was stoned and left for dead. He was shipwrecked 3 times yet the world has never forgotten him. He chose to conquer.
“Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? 36 As it is written, For thy sake we are killed all the day long; we are accounted as sheep for the slaughter. 37 Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us.”
(Romans 8:35-37)