Overcomers are not passive. They pursue. They cannot tolerate enslavement. What you fail to master will eventually master you. It may be anger, an addiction, or an attitude.
Target your enemy. God loves a fighter. Paul attacked tradition. Jesus attacked sickness and disease. Go ahead, learn the joy of attack.
“Blessed be the Lord my strength, which teacheth my hand to war, and my fingers to fight:”
(Psalms 144:1)