Fearing God is not necessarily being afraid of Him. It means to honor Him and have a healthy respect for His opinions, instructions, and plans. What you respect will come toward you. What you do not respect will move away from you.
God honors those who fear Him. Attending local church, tithing, and daily prayer are signals to Him that He matters to you.
“Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man. 14 For God shall bring every work into judgment, with every secret thing, whether it be good, or whether it be evil.”
(Ecclesiastes 12:13-14)