Listen to Pain
Pain is discomfort created by disorder. It is really not an enemy. It is a signal, a memo, a messenger telling you an enemy exists. When you were a child, you may have touched a hot iron. It hurt! Pain made you jerk your hand away. Pain made you make changes to protect yourself from injury.
If things are going wrong in your life, take it seriously. Pain talks. Initiate any change that may be necessary.
"For his anger endureth but a moment; in his favour is life: weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning."